As with any coastal city, seafood here is king; the typical Ilonggo style is to season only with salt, preserving the essence of native species. The best seafood restaurants are near Villa Beach, where colorful sailboats converge for the Paraw Regatta sailing festival every February.
Breakthrough is possibly Iloilo’s ‘fanciest’ restaurant, though still unbelievably cheap. Try the imbaw (mangrove clams in an aromatic soup), grilled managat (mangrove red snapper) and the rare ‘angel wing’ clam known as diwal, if it’s in season.
But the restaurant closest to my heart—and my grandmother’s favorite—is Stanley Talabahan, a specialist oyster restaurant. I’ve come here since my early childhood, when most of my family—around 25 cousins, uncles, aunts and grandparents—still lived on the same plot of land, and descended on Stanley’s en masse. Stanley’s is built, like many Filipino homes still are, on stilts over the ocean, with a corrugated iron roof. Salty air wafted up through the bamboo slats and chilled my toes.
What makes Stanley’s truly Ilonggo to me though, is that it’s barely changed in all my 35 years. Ilonggos are sweet, yes—but we are also stubborn, and in the face of ever-creeping Americanization, it’s this stubbornness that will preserve us and our cuisine for years to come.